Haus Mother and founder
Terra Highman
Regal • Warm
Terra welcomes every new member and sets the tone for the whole Haus, with clear boundaries and a steady heart. Expect couture every time.
Haus of Glitter & Gloom
A gothic drag community on Discord for LGBTQIA+ adults 21 and up
Terra Highman opened the Haus on August 15, 2026. We’re new, still growing and finding our footing. Members chat, share looks and music, and use the tarot and oracle decks in the Reading Room. Anyone 21 or older can join. You don’t need to be sober or do drag.
You never have to perform to fit in here.
Welcome
Who the Haus is for
The Haus is for LGBTQIA+ adults and the friends who show up for them. You can join before you’ve said a word, and before your story makes sense to anyone, including you.
Good nights and hard weeks sit side by side here. One member might be showing off a new drag look while another is working through recovery, and both get the same warm welcome. Chosen family can start with one honest hello.
Read our five community values
About the Haus
About Haus of Glitter & Gloom
Terra Highman started the Haus and runs it today. It officially opened on August 15, 2026, with a founding weekend of performances and member introductions.
Most of the Haus happens in our Discord server. This website adds a public forum, live chat, drag films and a page of crisis lines anyone can use. Haus Bouncers and Go Go Dancers moderate the server, and Terra moderates the website forum.
Terra and Sir Stabby were real drag performers who performed live on stage. Back then, Terra performed under a different name. Tosh A Salad is a drag character created by a real person. The portraits and films of all three on this site are made with AI.
Want to reach Terra about press, a collab or the website? Head to our Contact page.
- Opened
- August 15, 2026
- Run by
- Terra Highman, Haus Mother
- Who can join
- Adults 21 and older
- Where
- Discord, plus this website
The Haus Cast
Meet Terra Highman, Sir Stabby and Tosh A Salad
Terra runs the Haus, and Sir Stabby and Tosh round out the cast. You’ll see all three across the site, in the films and in the Discord server.
Haus Cast
Sir Stabby
Quiet loyalty • Aristocratic glamour
Sir Stabby keeps a quiet watch by the door. Loyal to the family and polished in the spotlight, Sir Stabby is happy to let others take center stage.
Haus Cast
Tosh A Salad
Goth Y2K • Cyber-glam
Tosh brings club-kid color and loud, funny nightlife energy. She usually shows up in platform boots with a little neon around the edges.
About these portraits: our cast portraits are AI renders. Terra and Sir Stabby were real drag performers, and both did live shows on real stages. Terra went by a different stage name back then. Tosh is based on a character her creator designed. We don’t have photos from real events yet.
The Haus takes its idea of chosen family from drag houses. You’re welcome here whether or not you perform.
Onyx Nocturne · The Living Archive
Daily drag artist spotlights from Onyx Nocturne
Each day, Onyx Nocturne, the digital diva of the Haus, picks one drag artist from somewhere in the world and links to sources about their work.
Only Onyx’s daily spotlight is posted here. Member conversations, replies, nominations, and private server spaces stay off the website.
Daily Spotlight · October 6, 2026
Landon Cider
United States ◆ Drag King · Alternative · Performance Art
Landon Cider made history in 2019 as the first drag king to compete on a US drag TV show, then won the whole thing. Landon took season 3 of The Boulet Brothers' Dragula and the title World's Next Drag Supermonster. Southern California crowds knew the name long before that, from nights like Drag King Explosion at Hamburger Mary's. Landon hosted the first King Panel at DragCon and later judged on Dragula and Call Me Mother.
Stage & screen
The Boulet Brothers' Dragula — Season 3
Daily Spotlight · October 5, 2026
Vicky Vox
United States ◆ Music · Comedy · Cabaret
Vicky Vox sings live, and loud. Her first drag gig was a show first booked with her band, so she ditched the band, threw on an Afro and a favorite muumuu, and did it anyway. Vicky is the V in DWV with Willam and Detox, played a nightclub host in Magic Mike XXL, and can light a cigarette with her nose. She calls herself an entertainer, full stop.
Stage & screen
Independent and international drag scene
Daily Spotlight · October 4, 2026
Sigourney Beaver
United States ◆ Glamour · Pageant · Alternative
Sigourney Beaver is a horror beauty queen with piercing white eyes and hair piled sky-high. The name winks at Sigourney Weaver of Alien fame, so the scream-queen energy comes built in. Sigourney came up in burlesque, brings the art of the tease to every number, and holds several pageant titles. She was a runner-up on season 4 of The Boulet Brothers' Dragula and came back for Dragula: Titans season 2, winning a challenge each time.
Stage & screen
The Boulet Brothers' Dragula — Season 4 · Titans Season 2
3 spotlights on display.
The Haus constitution
Our five community values
Mods use these five values when they make a call in the server or on the forum. Give them a read before you join.
Every person has worth
Your worth here has nothing to do with how popular you are, how you look, whether you drink or where you came from.
Belonging comes first
You don’t have to earn your place. Lurk for a while or jump right in. Showing up is enough.
Kindness is strength
We call out harm when we see it, and we stay kind to the person while we do it.
Accountability is love
When someone slips, we try to talk it through and repair things first. We remove people only when that isn’t safe.
Leave the lights on
Stay five minutes or five years. Either way, you should leave knowing you mattered and that you can always come back.
Server roles
Discord roles and who moderates the server
Every role in the Discord server has a job. None of them makes one member worth more than another.
Leadership & welcome
Haus Mother
Terra Highman runs the Haus as its Haus Mother. Terra greets the family, sets the direction and guards the heart of the Haus.
Character & culture
Haus Cast
The performers and characters who star in Haus stories and films, including Sir Stabby and Tosh A Salad. They bring the humor and the show.
Meet the Haus Cast
Moderation & protection
Haus Bouncer
Bouncers work the door. They make sure newcomers know the rules, set clear limits and keep members safe while the room stays warm.
Moderation & energy
Go Go Dancer
Go Go Dancers are the social side of the mod team. They keep rooms lively, welcome new members and step in when someone needs care.
Server Boosters
VIP
VIP is our thank-you to members who boost the server. It comes with a few special touches, and every room stays open to everyone.
How moderation works
Haus Bouncers and Go Go Dancers are the moderation team. Bouncers focus on safety at the door. Go Go Dancers keep the mood right inside. Both follow the same community rules.
Rooms
Rooms in the Discord server and on the forum
You’ll find these rooms in the Discord server and on the website forum. Use whichever one suits you.
Start here
The Grand Foyer
Start here for welcome messages, introductions, news from the Haus and the community rules.
Visit the forumConversation
The Velvet Lounge
Moderated, safe-for-work chat about your day, music and games.
Open live chatCreativity
The Ballroom
Share your drag, art, writing, photos and music, and cheer on what other members make.
Read about Haus eventsSupport
The Lantern Room
Recovery and harm-reduction info, coming-out help and wellness check-ins.
See support resourcesThe Velvet Lounge
Live chat in the Velvet Lounge
When the lounge is open, you can chat here with members on Discord. Each message shows where it came from, and the same rules apply on both sides.
velvet-lounge
21+ · SFW conversation · kindness required · boundaries honored
Checking connection
Before you post. Lounge messages may remain in shared website history and, when the private bridge is active, may also appear in the Discord lounge. Protect your privacy, skip details that could identify you, and use the report button if something feels unsafe. If you’re in crisis, use the support lines further down this page.
The Lantern Room
Crisis lines and mental health support
The Haus is a peer community. Members can listen and help you find the right line, and the services below are run by trained people.
United States crisis support
Call or text 988
It’s free and confidential, day or night. You don’t have to be suicidal to call. If you or someone else is in danger right now, call 911. Outside the US, call your local emergency number, such as 999 in the UK, 112 in the EU or 000 in Australia.
Immediate support
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Call, text or chat with a trained counselor, 24/7, anywhere in the US and its territories.
Open official resource ↗Recovery and treatment
SAMHSA treatment locator
Search for mental health and drug or alcohol treatment near you in the US.
Search for support ↗LGBTQ+ youth
The Trevor Project
Free crisis support for LGBTQ+ young people in the US, by phone, text or chat, 24/7.
Reach a counselor ↗Harm-reduction education
National Harm Reduction Coalition
Read the core ideas behind harm reduction and the rights of people who use drugs.
Read the principles ↗Overdose prevention
CDC overdose-prevention guidance
Learn about overdose risks, naloxone and how to help prevent an overdose.
Open CDC guidance ↗The Lantern Room
More crisis lines and resources
See crisis lines for other countries and more support links on one page.
View all resources →Events
Haus events so far, and what comes next
The Haus opened on August 15, 2026, and it’s still a small community. We don’t have any regular events yet. They’ll come as the Haus grows, and members will help plan them.
Coming later
No events scheduled yet
When we plan the first ones, Discord members will hear about them first. Join the Haus on Discord to stay in the loop.
Right now
What members do today
Members chat on Discord and in our live chat, share their looks and music, and use the tarot and oracle decks in the Reading Room. They also help decide what the Haus does next.
Past event · August 15–17, 2026
Founding weekend
The Haus opened with a midnight welcome, performances, member introductions and a surprise from Terra Highman. Watch the Grand Opening film.
The performance archive
Drag performance videos, made with AI
These six films cover the Pre-Launch, the Grand Opening, a Haus introduction for each cast member and Sir Stabby’s second performance.
About these films: every Haus performance is made with AI and directed by people. None of them are recordings of live shows. Terra Highman and Sir Stabby both performed drag live, and the films show AI renders of them. Terra’s stage name was different back then. Tosh A Salad is based on a character her creator designed. How we make our films
Archive 01 · Pre-Launch
The Velvet Rope
Archive 02 · Grand Opening
Grand Opening
Archive 03 · Haus Introduction
Haus Introduction - Sir Stabby
Archive 04 · Debut Performance
Haus Introduction - Tosh A Salad
Archive 05 · Haus Introduction
Haus Introduction - Terra Highman
Archive 06 · Second Performance
Sir Stabby — Quiet at the Door
Each film has its own page with details and a link to the YouTube upload. See all six films, or subscribe on our YouTube channel.
The Haus Reading Room
Haus tarot and oracle decks
Draw cards from the Haus tarot and oracle decks online in the Reading Room. Printed decks are planned. No release date has been set yet.
Tarot deck · Digital readings
Tarot Deck
Draw from the 78-card Haus tarot deck and read what each card means.
- Available to explore online
- Planned for purchase
Enter the Reading Room
Purchase · Coming soon
Oracle deck · Digital readings
Oracle Deck
Draw from the 59-card Haus oracle deck and read a short reflection for each card.
- Available to explore online
- Planned for purchase
Enter the Reading Room
Purchase · Coming soon
Online readings are open now. Nothing is being offered for sale yet, and no print release date has been announced.
Join the Haus
How to join the Haus on Discord
There’s no application to fill out. To join, read the six Haus rules and agree to follow them. They’re the same rules posted in our Discord server. You decide how much of your own story to share.
Your way inside
Three steps to join
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Read about the Haus
Look over the values, roles and rooms on this page.
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Agree to the Haus rules
Read all six rules and tick the box to say you agree. That includes knowing the Haus is 21+.
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Join on Discord
Open the invite, pick your roles and settle in at your own pace. You’ll need voice verification before you can see any NSFW channels.
The Haus is for adults 21 and older. You’ll verify your age before you can enter age-restricted rooms. We only ask for what the check needs.
You never have to share your sexuality, gender identity or recovery history to join.
Before you join
The Haus rules you agree to before joining
These are the same six rules posted in our Discord server. Please read each one before you join.
This server is owned by someone LGBTQIA+ - if you wish to join, treat EVERYONE with respect. Treat others how you would want to be treated - with respect.
No doxxing, sourcing, nor CSAM is allowed. If any of these are found to take place, you will be permanently and immediately banned.
By entering this server you understand we are a 21+ server and VC verification required before gaining access to any NSFW channels.
No spam or self-promotion (server invites, advertisements, etc) without permission from a staff member. This includes DMing fellow members without prior consent.
Please keep any and all age-restricted content to the NSFW marked text/voice channels. Failure to do so may result in permanent restrictions and/or ban.
Lastly - Relax, enjoy yourself, make friends, and be the glitter - not the gloom ❤
Please tick the box before you join.
Please read the rules and tick the box first.
FAQ
Questions people ask before joining
Straight answers about who can join, sobriety, age and moderation.
01 Do I need to be a drag performer?
No. The Haus takes its idea of chosen family from drag houses, and anyone is welcome. Come as an artist, an ally, a friend or a quiet lurker.
02 Do I have to be LGBTQIA+?
The Haus centers LGBTQIA+ people and welcomes supportive allies, including people touched by addiction or recovery. What matters most is that you respect the community.
03 Do I have to be sober?
No. Members may be sober, cutting back, still using, dealing with relapse or supporting someone they love. No one here may shame or pressure anyone, and no one may push unsafe use.
04 Is the Haus 21+?
Yes. The Haus is for adults only. You’ll verify your age before entering age-restricted rooms, and you only share what the check needs.
05 Can I participate without Discord?
Yes. You can use the forum, live chat and resources on this website without Discord. The full server, with voice rooms and roles, is on Discord.
06 Who moderates the community?
Haus Bouncers and Go Go Dancers. Bouncers handle safety and limits. Go Go Dancers keep rooms friendly and lively. Both follow the same rules.
07 Is the Haus therapy or crisis care?
No. The Haus is a peer community that shares good information. For treatment, medical care or a crisis, please use the support lines on this page.
Discord
Join the Haus Discord server
The server has voice rooms, roles and text channels. Most of the Haus happens there, and news about future events will go there first.
Every invite starts with the Haus rules. Read them and tick the box to join.